While the concept of soul mates is such an elusive and misunderstood principle, it would do you a lot of good right now to reflect on this topic, because it’s a very real issue for you and it cannot be dodged or evaded. Why are you so magnetically attracted to someone that seems so different than you? Why is someone walking into your life right now challenging all of your prejudices and assumptions (and you theirs)? It’s because your soul is speaking to you about the nature of polarity and duality as you have previously defined it. That does not mean that you should instantly fall in love with someone you shouldn’t have fallen in love with. I always urge discretion in this area, trust me. But if you can sit down and have an informed conversation about your favorite Brady Bunch episode that you both know and love…and enjoy a passionate love life…and yet this same person does not match your preciously held vision of the “right type,” don’t run in the other direction. Go deeper.