Cue Michael Butler: “Let’s get ready to rummmmmmmmmmmmble.” With that command, you are now in the iron cage match of the zodiac, where you are forced to deal with conflict in relationship and this conflict in yourself and since you are usually adverse to conflict and confrontation, this can be a tricky time for you when you might over-capitulate, just to play nice and get along…or you might assume that the best defense is a good offense and take on all comers with hardly any provocation.

You’re on the quest for balance in this lifetime and achieving it is no easy feat, especially now, when Aries is goading you to act out of character or become a caricature of your normal, zen-like self. So what to do? Ride the tiger, of course. I have three exercises for you to consider this month, exercises that I think will help you deal with the overabundance of yang in your life in a positive fashion.

Here’s exercise number one: Do not hesitate to speak your mind in public, if you sense something is wrong or unjust. Let’s say the bagger or the checkout clerk at the grocery store is talking with someone other than the person ahead of you and it’s clear that their conversation is slowing down the purchase of goods. Say something. Risk being a jerk, but do it politely, of course.

Exercise number two: If you get into a road rage incident or someone cuts you off this month, do not, I repeat, do not escalate it. Bless them and give them the sign of the cross.

Exercise number three: Watch American Idol and love Simon Cowell unconditionally. Bet you didn’t know that nasty old Simon is a Libra. He should be your patron saint when it comes to Libra’s speaking their minds and living their truths. Then apply these lessons as quickly as you can to your relationships. When it comes to Venus, she’s resting deep in your psyche. Let your dreams heal the schisms in your soul.

Your Kosmic hero this month? The Incredible Hulk.