Reward your lover by pampering… yourself! You can’t make someone else feel good if you don’t feel good yourself, so go ahead and get a spa treatment or a manicure. If it’s not in the budget, do it yourself or take a warm bath in Epsom salts and milk (like Cleopatra did). After you are all freshened up, get some tiny hair accessories and decorate your privates with them! Some that can work well are the tiny Velcro and fabric type in different shapes or the tiny jaw-type clips that come in themes and colors (often marketed to little girls), many come ½ inch or smaller. Cover yourself in a robe. Now, it’s time to present yourself!