While you normally find an ally in Aries, an energy that compels you to act on your instincts, your greatest strength and weakness, this month, the ram is offering you a far different energy exchange. It’s stirring up a mighty wind in your heart and making you re-visit how quickly you judge others when it comes to loving and being loved. Aries is the most personal and will directed of all signs, so much so that there is hardly any separation between self and action.

For you, that fiery Aries spark gives you a special flare for the creative, a love for children and the ability to start and stop love affairs on a dime. You can capture the imagination of your beloved with a dashing and daring savoir faire, and you can just as easily crush them as you lose interest and hop to the next heart shaped lily pad. The entire month of March compels you to have a long, deep look at how this impacts others, and how quick you are to assign meaning to actions you presume others might be taking against you when it comes to your heart. A great example of this would be someone that actually loves you, but is unable to truly express it because of their upbringing and the limits of how they learned to love in their early family life. You might actually believe that the person doesn’t really love you at all and you begin to plot your patented Sag, exit strategy, only to find out that it’s not as personal as you thought, just someone that doesn’t have the emotional software to express their feelings.

Now that doesn’t mean you should stick it out, but if it’s really important to you, then you would be well advised to step back and not assign blame in the wrong area. Practice some patience, forgiveness and breathe, knowing that you’re the one that needs to learn how to love better, deeper, longer and wiser.