There’s no other sign that loves to relate about loving the way that you do and this month, you’ll have ample opportunity to explore the contours of relating. So much in fact, that the usually obsessive quality that you have around this might actually go away for a while. I used to have a lover with Mars in Libra and being with her was like one, long, EST seminar as we processed our feelings, shortcomings, shadows, misgivings, upbringings, uprootings and upper rooms so much that we wrenched almost all of the joy out of being with one another. In the end, I couldn’t wait to leave the relationship and yet there was this perverse intimacy that we had created by barring, burning and learning from one another’s souls.

I wouldn’t recommend it to just anyone, except you, right about now. In fact, it’s quite unavoidable, so you might as well just jump right in. Make sure that you have some copies of “He,” “She,” and “We” by the great Jungian therapist, Robert Johnson. Throw in some Wayne Dyer DVD’s, get out some Arthur Janov and a little Rumi to take the edge off and process ’till your so processed-out that you are weary and defenseless.

It’s at that point that you’ll be able to confront the insidious controller that masquerades as an internal guide to better relating and true balance. Stare that little Napoleon down and politely (you are a Libra) tell him his services are no longer needed for the immediate future and if and when they are, you’ll give him a call, but you’re the one that’s calling the shots and developing deep dialogs versus investigations and inquisitions of the heart.