Well, you’ve done your very best to put this off for as long as you can, but the moment of truth in relationships has finally arrived, and it won’t go down as some mellow accord, a simpatico meeting of hearts and minds. No, you will have to abandon your detached perspective and be drawn into some very personal assessments regarding feelings. Instead of being clinical and analytical, I would advise you to open your heart and drop your persistence in being right. Even though you might be, using the force of your estimable intellect to make your points could be very damaging to you in the long run. Surrender, come into your body and feel the other’s position. You’ll be amazed at the perceptions you derive as a result. How cool is that?